After one or two years of marriage, many couples early love buzz starts to fade, the polite gestures and words also start to wear off. But, In the midst of all these, there are still rules that act as a glue that can keep couples together.
One advice I would give any woman is that your marriage success depends on you. "A wise woman builds her home with an attitude of love, forbearance, joy, kindness, faithfulness, humility and self-control". "Women are homemakers.
Are you building your home or are you foolishly tearing it down with your own hands? When you wake up each morning, how do you react? Do you feel frustrated before your feet even hit the floor or do you wake up with cheerfulness and love?
A woman's family is held together by her wisdom but can be destroyed by her foolishness. Your actions have the power to draw your husband close to you and can also Chase him far away from home. The happiness in your home depends on you. By wisdom, a house is built and by understanding it is established. A wife of noble character is far more precious than rubies.
These easy rules will help you both to live together feeling more loved, appreciated and valued.
Say Good Morning
As simple as it may sound, Good morning is a very magical word, it serves as an affirmation which gives room for a productive day and positive communication all day. When you wish your man a good morning, what you're really saying is that it's a good morning because you are together. Politeness is like a string that holds a relationship together. The two magic words are capable of calming his mind, even if he woke up from the wrong side.
When the alarm starts blaring, rather than forcefully snoozing the button or quickly jumping out of the bed to the bathroom, turn to your guy, plant a kiss on his forehead and say "Good morning!". Same goes with Men to their wives. Many types of research indicate that more than 80 per cent of couples who do this every day have an excellent union and describe their relationship as above average.
Don't Cut Your Partner Off
By nature, men are just as chatty as women are. If the man in your life isn't much of a talker, it may be because you constantly interrupt him. It often happens when you cut him off before he's had the chance to finish his sentence. If your partner is mostly silent, it's usually because he doesn't feel comfortable having a discussion with you. In a healthy relationship, both partners need to feel heard.
Praise Each Other in Public
Everyone crave compliments, especially men. Public the accolade is very important because it sends the message that you're proud to be with your partner and you want the world to know it.
Give him sincere compliments, appeal to his masculinity. It will make him feel appreciated and loved. Men are not an exception to this.
Acknowledge Your Partners Kind Gestures.
There are things your man does for you like bringing you a cup of coffee in the morning, rubbing your back or buying you a gift and there are also things they do for the wellbeing of the relationship like working long hours at the office or their work to keep food on the table and for other family welfare. You should always thank the man in your life for the stuff they do explicitly for you, no matter how little it appears.
It is very important to acknowledge them, as this can make them work harder to make you happy and also improve your life and the relationship as a whole.
Always remember this; if you reaped any benefits from his actions, you need to thank him.
EIGHT IMPORTANT THINGS TO QUICKLY LOOK OUT FOR, IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP
1. Keep sexual life fresh: sexual life is an important way to connect husband and wife's feelings and a good sexual life is a necessary guarantee to consolidate and develop the relationship between husband and wife. Many couples have same-sex life after marriage, lack of innovation, and lead to emotional passivation. Therefore, to create a new way of sexual life, by changing the time, place, body position and other methods of sexual life, both husband and the wife can get fresh feelings from the forever fresh sex life, and keep the love flowers of husband and wife fresh forever.
2. Often recall love: love is the precursor of marriage, the men and women in love, that kind of attachment, a moment difficult to leave the scene, is really very wonderful. After marriage, often recalling the scene of love before marriage can arouse the emotional resonance of husband and wife, increase romantic emotion in the memory and more yearn for the future, so as to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
3. Arrange another ‘honeymoon’: the honeymoon at the time of marriage is the period when the couple has the strongest feelings. After marriage, if you can make use of the holidays and arrange "honeymoons" at different times every year, such as visiting a different place, rebuilding the love world between the two, and revisiting the old dream, you will be able to constantly stir up waves of love and make the relationship between husband and wife more and stronger.
4. Celebration of commemorative festivals: wedding anniversary, the other party's birthday, love anniversary, etc., are important days in the love history of both husband and wife. Give a well-prepared gift for these festivals.
5. Create unexpected surprise: surprise the other party unexpectedly, which often plays the role of emotional "stimulant". Therefore, creating a little surprise is good for improving the relationship between husband and wife.
6. A little farewell is better than marriage. After a quiet couple's life, they consciously leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate their missing for their lovers, and then get together happily. At this time, it can make the emotional heat wave of the couple's missing interweave into a happy reunion carnival, and push the calm couple's feelings to a new peak.
7. Prevent children from taking love: many couples, after having children, tend to put all their emotions on their children, often ignoring the emotional needs of their lovers, especially women. This approach is biased. It is necessary to give love to your children, but it does not mean that you should give up your love and continue to invest in it. In that way, it will not only affect the relationship between husband and wife but also cast a shadow on the family.
8. Leave enough time for bath love: in the fast-paced competition of modern society, everyone's work is very busy. Many people are busy with their work and can't pay attention to the emotional life of husband and wife. As a result, the husband and wife often can't eat and sleep together, which affects the consolidation and development of their feelings. Therefore, no matter how busy the work is, we should arrange skillfully, squeeze out time, and leave them to live together and love together.
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